a post, finally.
taken frm my soulcast.com blog. here it goes.
THE TREND. =Dlets talk about the unusual trend in teens nowadays.in the past.maybe in your dad and mom's generation, how your dad woo-ed your mom was way different than how your boyfriend or suitor woo-ed you or maybe how you woo-ed a girl you were interested in. i bet you realised that too.in the past, the guy would most probably do some silly things like leaving notes on the girl's table, or maybe, writing love letters, doing all sort of things to attract the female's attention and when he gets it. he does things like buying roses, asking her out and then slowly asks her to be his girlfriend, face to face or maybe for the noober ones, over the phone. the "get the girl" process was a slow and sweet one. unlike the processes now. the trend now--- fast. quick. like yeah, get it done and over with. its like every guy is thinking " yeah. if you're not interested in me, why should i spend so much time just to ask you to be my steady"the new method which has now become a trend in younger teenagers ranging from 11 year olds to even up to 20++ year olds. this has become the official trend in our sunny island, singapore. its easy now. all you need to do is go online, find some girl next door or hot babe from friendster, add her online, chat with her for 10 mins or so, and get straight to the topic. maybe by starting frm, " i like you" and then 3 days ltr " can you be my girlfriend. i really like you" and if rejected, it doesnt matter, just move on to the next target. just what has the world come to. youngsters now treat love more and more like a game, and no one seems to really take it seriously anymore. could it be because of the easy going, lousy method of woo-ing girls, which is so easy now, that make people take the relationship for granted. afterall, it started off with the wrong motive and purpose. all judging by the looks.besides, for eg, now, you like a girl frm your class. all you do, is two clicks away frm the net. double click on the girl's user name and pop comes the conversation window. and then, you start talkin to her online and well, you never talked to her in real life before and then after some time you ask her to be your girlfriend. and even if she agreed, what will come out of the relationship without talkin in real life. how awkward will it be when you two go out tgt without talking. what kinda of relationship is that.this noticable trend is indeed turnin you world upside down. most probable due to the advanced technology.it made all of us, introvertedly extroverted.
